Stop being Played by Players
In today’s society every man would like to be player. The term player is a lifestyle for a lot of young men. They try too and can do whatever they want when it comes to dating women. I have heard woman complain time and time again about how their man is not treating them right. The answer is simple it is more woman out here than man. The ratio is 30 to 1. Young men or older men it’s all the same.
Women make it super easy for men to play the game. One thing that men analyze when they first meet a woman is (WIFEY) material or is she just somebody to get down with. Women think that being half dressed is appealing to a man. But it is not viewed as Wife material. Men look at her employment, education, or is she just a party girl. Woman always think it is just physical with a man, at first it might be, but looks only last so long. If a man had his choice between 2 women, the first woman made him work a little harder to get with her and the second woman gave it up very easily. Depending on what he is looking for he will probably go for the second women first if he just wanted to be a player. If he wanted something more long lasting he will choose the woman that made him work hard. Men like to be challenged because we are aggressive by nature.
The signs are very simple when it comes to deciphering a player. You need to decide what level the man is on when you meet him. If he say; I don’t want a girlfriend then don’t try to make him commit to you. If he doesn’t bring you around or only get up with you at night you are his fling. Don’t get upset when you need to make the decision about what you want in life. Word to my sister’s, if you want more then don’t settle for less!